There are lots of styles of dating in Japan, so I will introduce the first dating of Japanese couples. Usually, going to the movie in the first dating is most popular style, and from young people like middle school couples to senior people like middle age couples, almost all couples like to go to the movie. This is because movie theatres have nice atmosphere and they do not need to speak anything when they are watching the movies. After watching movies, they can chat about the movie they watched, with having coffee. Therefore, they have to be careful when they choose which movies they are gonna watch.
The first dating of Korean couples is almost same as Japanese one, but there are some differences from Japanese dating style. Especially, guys' behaviors toward their girl friends' are more friendly than Japanese one. guys always carry their girl friends' bags when they are dating. This fact makes Japanese people surprised, but in Korea we can see lots of guys who are having two bags. Moreover, after dating guys always see their girlfriends off to their house even if their houses are far from guys' houses.
日本のデートスタイルは様々ですが、私は日本の最初のデートについて紹介したいと思います。
日本では映画を見に行くことが最も人気のあるスタイルで、若い人々から年配の人々まで皆映画を観るのが好きです。なぜなら、映画館の雰囲気はがとても良いことと、映画の上映中何も話す必要がないからだと思われます。なので、どの映画を観るのか選ぶ時、注意して選ばないといけません。なぜなら、映画を観終わった後、その映画の話をご飯を食べながらするからです。
韓国のデートスタイルは大体日本と同じですが、少し違う面もあり、特に彼氏の彼女に対する態度が違います。韓国では、彼氏はいつも彼女の鞄を持ってあげます。このことは日本人をよく驚かせますが、もし私たちが韓国に行ったらよく見る光景です。また、彼氏は自分の家から遠くても、彼女を彼女の家まで送ります。
4 件のコメント:
Do many Japanese college students
decide not to date in order to focus on school?
Is it strange for someone not to date?
私の彼氏はいつも私のpurseを持ってあげるんです-I made him carry my purse when we first started dating。アメリカ人はとても変なことだと思うんですが、 韓国では普通ですね。
アメリカで、大勢の人々が日本人とアメリカ人が非常に異なっていると信じています。でも、このブログを読む後で、アメリカ人と日本人がたびたび同じだと思います。
両方が最初のデートに映画を選びます。しかも、両方が映画後でコーヒーを飲むのも選びます。
とても同様ですね。
驚いていますか?
My boyfriend holds my purse when I try to put on a coat or something like that but I never make him carry them around!! It just seem so gay;;
But he opens doors for me and carries other heavy things for me.
I think coffee shops are more for studying and waking up than dating for students here. All the coffee shops around campus are packed with students studying or working on a group project. Of course there are people socializing but they are mostly friends.
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